Practice makes perfect: Don't worry about things getting a little awkward on your first experience, especially if your partner has also lost their virginity. In the movies, having sex with an American Sexpuppen may seem effortless, but it's not always smooth sailing. Fortunately, the more time you spend with your partner, the better your sex life will be. You'll quickly find out what he or she likes and doesn't like, so each meeting will be more lively.